Who are bullies [zt]

來源: 2009-11-29 19:59:55 [博客] [舊帖] [給我悄悄話] 本文已被閱讀:

bullies usually fit the following description:

* full of insecurities
* poor social skills
* little empathy
* find satisfaction in their ability to attack and diminish the capable people around them
* need to control and bully others to feel more powerful

Oftentimes, bullies have been victims of violence themselves, and most are not as tough as they make out to be. They’re motivated, in most part, by jealousy, lack of knowledge, fear, or misunderstanding. What’s alarming is their ability to shift from charming to vicious in a matter of minutes.