回複：回複：回複：謝謝各位大俠的點撥，今晚整理、歸納了大家給的意見後，確實看到我的危險處境!

Hill, regarding people may have different comments, here is something might be related to it. Your team members, you bosses, and your peers - like leads for other departments. Your team members want you to be aggressive to protect them, depend them, or asking for high visible projects. Your bosses want you to be aggressive to help them, meet the goals for their bosses. Your peers want you to be support them, understanding them. So it is possible that when people talk about aggressive, they mean different thing.

I definitely agree with 戲雨飛鷹. I do not feel things are that bad. Do not swing too much. Believe in yourself. Good luck