作為領導(沒做過領導的沒什麽發言權),對屬下是否要問?

我朋友她的領導問她
"how are you doing otherwise?" She said "fine." he siad, "well, that's not really convincing."

he kept asking and looking at her. then she told him, "well, my hu*****and and I have seperated."

這個領導做的appropriate麽?
我們做領導, 發現屬下有情緒異樣, 是否要關心的詢問一下?