Choose the lesser of the two devils. Here is how to do it.

1) Write down all the pros and cons for your two options (stay or go).
2) Ask your hubby to do the same independently.
3) Compare your notes with each other and consolidate the pros and cons for each choice.
4) Assign a numberic value (plus for pro, minus for con) to each pro and con item you two agreed upon.
5) Added them up and see which one has a higher value.
6) Choose that option and forget about the other.

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