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say what you mean. mean you said. "This English proverb draws the distinction between a bricks and mortar house and a caring domestic dwelling with memories and a feeling of belonging. No one is exactly sure of the first coinage of 'a house is not a home' but the first version known of in print comes from the American writer and women's rights advocate Margaret Fuller and it may well be that she coined it herself. Her early pro-feminist work Woman in the Nineteenth Century was published in 1845, containing this opinion: A house is no home unless it contains food and fire for the mind as well as the body. Coco Chanel's quote : It's not houses I love, it's the life I live in them. Being another version reflecting the same mentality. "
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The English proverb "A house is not a home" emphasizes the distinction between a physical structure made of bricks and mortar and a true domestic dwelling that holds memories and a sense of belonging. While the exact origin of this phrase is unclear, one of the earliest known printed versions is attributed to the American writer and women's rights advocate Margaret Fuller. In her 1845 work "Woman in the Nineteenth Century," Fuller expressed the idea that a house only becomes a home when it provides not only shelter and sustenance but also nourishes the mind and spirit. Coco Chanel's quote, "It's not houses I love, it's the life I live in them," conveys a similar sentiment, highlighting that the essence of a home lies not in the physical structure but in the life and experiences it holds.

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none sense debate: no physicals, no emotion, no soul. house is home, vice versa. expand my thought
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The debate over what truly constitutes a home is an intriguing one, and it's a topic that often delves into the realms of philosophy and personal beliefs. Let's explore your thought further:

No Physicals, No Emotion, No Soul:

Some argue that a house, devoid of any physical presence, emotional connection, or soulful attributes, is just a structure or a building. It's a space with walls and a roof, but it lacks the qualities that make it a true home.
Without the physical components like furniture, personal belongings, and the layout that suits the needs and preferences of its inhabitants, a house remains a mere shell.

A House Is Home, Vice Versa:

On the other hand, there's an opposing view that a house inherently possesses the potential to become a home. It provides a space where people can build their lives, create memories, and foster emotional connections.
Some believe that it's the people living within the house who infuse it with life, emotions, and a sense of belonging. As they personalize the space, decorate it, and share their lives there, the house gradually transforms into a home.

Expanding on these thoughts:

The concept of a home is deeply subjective. What one person considers a home might not hold the same meaning for another. It's influenced by personal experiences, cultural backgrounds, and individual preferences.
The emotional connection to a home often stems from the memories created within it. These memories can be positive or negative, but they contribute to the sense of attachment and belonging.
Some argue that a home has an intangible quality, often referred to as its "soul." This is the unique atmosphere or vibe that a home takes on based on the people who reside there and the experiences they share.

In conclusion, the debate over whether a house can truly become a home revolves around the interplay between the physical structure and the emotional and personal elements that individuals bring to it. While some emphasize the importance of personalization and emotional connections, others believe that the physical space itself can be the foundation for creating a meaningful home. Ultimately, it's a deeply personal and subjective perspective, and what matters most is the significance that a place holds for the people who call it home.  

 

APAD: A house is not a home

 
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This English proverb draws the distinction between a bricks and mortar house and a caring domestic dwelling with memories and a feeling of belonging. 

No one is exactly sure of the first coinage of 'a house is not a home' but the first version known of in print comes from the American writer and women's rights advocate Margaret Fuller and it may well be that she coined it herself. Her early pro-feminist work Woman in the Nineteenth Century was published in 1845, containing this opinion: A house is no home unless it contains food and fire for the mind as well as the body.

Coco Chanel's quote :  It's not houses I love, it's the life I live in them.

Being another version reflecting the same mentality. 

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• No. It's an investment! Money is home (joking) :-) -7grizzly 給 7grizzly 發送悄悄話 7grizzly 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) (1 reads) 10/02/2023 postreply 09:49:21

• Hahaha -盈盈一笑間 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) (0 reads) 10/02/2023 postreply 10:40:11

• A house is not a home~還有老外不喜歡housewife這個稱呼。聽過這種說法” I didn’t -盈盈一笑間 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) (7 reads) 10/02/2023 postreply 10:43:59

• marry a house. Don’t call me housewife. I am a home maker”. -盈盈一笑間 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) (2 reads) 10/02/2023 postreply 10:46:21

• Only in once case her husband's name is House -移花接木 給 移花接木 發送悄悄話 移花接木 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) (4 reads) 10/02/2023 postreply 11:25:02

• 瞬間想到脫口秀演員house 。就是今年出事那位。 -盈盈一笑間 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) (1 reads) 10/02/2023 postreply 11:32:56

• 英語好像也有些改變。如今, Buy a home 或 Homes for sale 已經是正確的表達了。 -唐宋韻 給 唐宋韻 發送悄悄話 唐宋韻 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) (3 reads) 10/02/2023 postreply 11:31:58

• 這句和樓下唐宋兄的“我心安處是為家”異曲同工 -唐歌 給 唐歌 發送悄悄話 唐歌 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) (1 reads) 10/02/2023 postreply 12:16:50

• A house occupied by souls and minds is a home :) 謝謝移哥分享。 -CBA7 給 CBA7 發送悄悄話 CBA7 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) (2 reads) 10/02/2023 postreply 12:44:15

• A novel definition of home. -方外居士 給 方外居士 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) (1 reads) 10/02/2023 postreply 13:27:49

• 中文家包含house和home. Decoupling of the two makes more accurate. -方外居士 給 方外居士 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) (2 reads) 10/02/2023 postreply 12:47:03

• 中英文比較學的研究課題,請繼續~~ :)) -盈盈一笑間 給 盈盈一笑間 發送悄悄話 盈盈一笑間 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) (1 reads) 10/02/2023 postreply 15:25:04

• 哈哈,業餘愛好的膚淺之見,以求拋磚引玉。 -方外居士 給 方外居士 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) (0 reads) 10/02/2023 postreply 15:36:43

• Yep, this is a good one. -waterfowl 給 waterfowl 發送悄悄話 waterfowl 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) (0 reads) 10/02/2023 postreply 16:03:19

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