時間消耗在私事應酬

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在1905年日記中，惲毓鼎就自責說：“自去冬至今，會無謂之客，赴無謂之局，終日征逐，身心俱疲，求六時靜坐看書而不可得，以致胸懷擾攘，往往夜不能寐。十餘年所用心性工夫幾全數放倒，若不亟自收拾，將為小人之歸矣。”一次連續接待了十幾位客人，搞的腿不能舉步。他覺得“究竟無一正經之事，無一關係之言，費光陰，耗精神”，發出真冤苦的抱怨,嘔吐起來。

於是感喟說西人彼此見麵時會就事論事，聚會後也不迎不送。宴會上談論閑情私事，公事免談。中國卻恰恰相反，那些來訪的人，明明有想說的事，卻先做無數浮泛的言辭加以鋪墊，廢去許多口舌後才進入正題，已耗去無數精神。等到了該說之事，說起來又喋喋不休，聽起來厭煩無比，其實幾句話就能說清。如此下去，主人哪裏會不困，哪裏會不怕會客？他說一個朋友托他辦事，翻來覆去說了七八遍。他感歎這種人必不能絕大疑，成大事。所以他“每懸想荒江老屋，耕讀自娛，不複問人間事，恐生平誤此清福也”。

　　清朝官員大量的時間會消耗在私事應酬的漫長程式裏。這些私事有些可支配，有些則無法擺脫，其中甘苦隻有自己感知。

GOOGLE   In 1905 diary, Yun Yu Ding remorse said: "Since last winter so far, will be meaningless's passenger, went to wasteful Bureau, all day levy gradually exhausted, sit reading a book but could not seek six o'clock, so mind lingered on,often awake at night more than 10 years of intentions done a few full recline, if not urgent since the pack, for villain of normalized men. "successive received a dozen guests, the legs can not engage in serious. He felt "what a serious matter, no relationship words of fee time, consumption of spirit" issue really complain bitterness, vomiting up.

So Lament said Westerners would meet each other the sake of discussion, after the meeting, do not greet them off. Banquet talking about leisure on a private matter, official business of discussion. China, but on the contrary, those who are visiting, it's clear to say something, but do first to pave the way countless floating words pass away many tongue is entered, only to have to burn off countless spirit. Wait until the things to say, say it again chatter sounds bored extremely, in fact, a few words can say. They continue to do so, the owner where it would not sleepy, where not afraid parlor? He said that a friend asked him to work, over and over again to say seven or eight times. He lamented that such a person will not substantially all doubt, become a major event. So he "Each hanging want Desolate old house, farming Reading amused no longer ask human affairs, fear biography mistaken this Fuling also.

The Qing officials a lot of time will consume private matter socializing long program. Some of these private affairs disposable, while others can not get rid of, which stand only their own perception.