Hi 土豆石頭媽 , I think you are living at RTP. I will have a job offer at Cary. I am not sure if it is a good idea moving from San Jose to Cary. I have two sons. One is Grade 2. One is 2 year old. WOuld you please give me some suggestion? Thanks, Xin

特別感謝寶貴意見。我隻有一個小東西，已經愁的白了頭。我會常來串門子，學經驗，努力當個稱職的媽。

土豆石頭媽媽：你好！ 看來我們2家情況有點相似，老大太嚴，老二太放，老人說太寵。我婆婆整天跟孩子過不去，老告狀，她自己吼的也很可怕，不過孩子不怕。如果我們打一下，她又不幹。不好對付的一老一小啊。 有空多交流吧。