I just lost all I had written. But I think that is what God wants to tell him. Stop complaining and stop blaming yourself.  Just do it rather than making a lot promises and then achieve nothing. with God's help, we will prevail. I will work hard. Take Kyle to library or an event at least once a week. Read to or with him once a day for minimum 15 minutes.

Talk to Kevin 15 minutes a day. Not about school but just random talk. Check his grades once a month.