隨著孩子們一天天的長大，我們也攜手進入了人生的後半程！她的生日、我的生日也過得一年比一年凝重。。。平時的年份過生日，總有張張羅羅絞盡腦汁給她買生日禮物、買玫瑰、訂蛋糕，最後全家找一可心幽靜之處大餐慶賀一下！今年不同了，如火如荼的疫情下出門購物實在讓人糾結和膽戰心驚，所有飯店關門美餐一頓更是成為泡影。。盡管如此，俺還是決定送給孩子媽兩件生日禮物。。

第一件是一首歌。隨著年齡增加對愛有了更深層次的理解和詮釋！我特別喜歡美國老一代鄉村音樂大家Don Williams的一首歌：you're my best friend。說起中國的愛情歌曲，基本都是少年少女專屬！很難找到或沒有那種表達結婚後的愛情歌曲，更別提老夫老妻的愛情歌曲啦！！可Don Williams寫的這首歌卻讓我如癡如醉，他對孩子媽的愛的表達那麽實在也那麽真切。。。和我一起聽吧，順便仔細體會一下歌詞！

https://youtu.be/SQDWayLiOEE

You placed gold on my finger
You brought love like I'd never known
You gave life to our children
And to me a reason to go on。

You're my bread when I'm hungry
You're my shelter from troubled winds
You're my anchor in life's ocean
But most of all, you're my best friend！

When I need hope and inspiration
You're always strong

when I'm tired and weak
I could search this whole world over
You'd still be everything that I need

You're my bread when I'm hungry
You're my shelter from troubled winds
You're my anchor in life's ocean
But most of all you're my best friend