你的孩子能填出來下列填空. 你能嗎? LOL: laughing out loud BRB: ___ _____ _____ MUSM: ____ ____ ____ ____ A/S/L: ____, ____, __________ BF: ______________ TAW: _____ ____ _______ LULAS: ____ ____ ____ __ ____ POS: ______ ___ _______ WTGP: ____ __ __ _________? LMIRL: ____ ____ __ ____ ______ 據估計, 每年約有20%的孩子會受到網上的性騷擾. 1
互聯網絡是一個無價的巨大資源. 但是, 的確也存在一些值得我們重視的嚴重問題. 比如: 網上性尋獵者和網上皮條客. 網上性尋獵者: 可能是任何人. 互聯網允許任何人匿名上網, 也不能防止成年人故意掩藏TA們的年齡, 性別, 身份, 和上網目的等. 網上皮條客: 無端的, 不請自到的, 或是你不希望可以被孩子接觸到的那些誘使孩子們從事性活動, 或者進行色情交談, 或者是發布不恰當的個人性信息. 教育自己的孩子如何保護自己, 不受這些網絡的侵擾, 是很重要的一課. 教會孩子如何保護自己最好的的辦法, 就是和孩子交談, 並且恰當地參與孩子的活動. - 象保護你的孩子在現實中不會受到侵害一樣去保護你的孩子不受網絡的侵害. - 對孩子上網予以知道, 並一起製定紀律. - 要知道你的孩子在和什麽人交談. - 認識互聯網. - 熟悉你的孩子經常會接觸到的或經常使用的軟件, 程序, 經常訪問的網站. - 考慮使用internet filters 或 blocks. - 把家庭使用的計算機放在公共的房間, 以便監督和指導孩子上網. - 限製孩子的上網時間, 以保證孩子的上網安全. 告訴孩子上網的好處和危險, 確保你的孩子理解並能作出正確的選擇. - 告訴孩子, instant messaging (IM) 隻能用來和學校的同學或其他熟悉的朋友聊天. 什麽叫 “熟悉”, 是指能麵對麵的認識, 並且, 是家長認可的. 隻是在網上結實的, 聊的開心的 “朋友”, 不是 “熟悉”的朋友! - 和孩子一起檢查孩子的 IM “buddy list”. 確認孩子可以描述出每一個ID所代表的是誰. - 65%的意外都是在聊天室裏發生的!2 - 告訴孩子, 如果一件事, TA不會在公眾麵前說出來的話, 那, 也一定不要在聊天室裏說出來! - 經常提醒孩子, 在網上說自己是什麽樣子的人, 很可能事實中並不是那個樣子的. - 強調: 在大多數情況下, 去見 “網友”是不安全的. 如果你發現了問題, 怎麽辦? - 要對孩子平時的行為習慣, 言談舉止的變化所有敏感. - 要檢查電話帳單上的陌生電話號碼, 尤其是孩子的手機帳單. 檢查孩子的不能解釋來源的不正常的禮物. - 要對孩子表現出你的關心, 認真傾聽TA們的傾訴, 如果聽到孩子說起一些你認為不好的網上經曆, 或你認為不妥的行為, 要保持冷靜. - 不要恐嚇孩子取消TA們上網的權利. - 用孩子發生的小錯誤來和孩子商討安全措施, 強調網上的人在事實中很可能不是那樣的. 1, 2 : 數據來源於David Finkelhor, Kimberly J. Mitchell, and Janis Wolak 於1999年對於10-17歲的遭受網上性騷擾的孩子的一份調查報告. 121: one to one ADN: any day now AFAIK: as far as I know AFK: away from keyboard A/S/L: age, sex, location B4: before B4N: bye for now BAK: back at the keyboard BBIAB: be back in a bit BBL: be back later BBN: bye bye now BBS: be back soon BEG: big evil grin BF: boyfriend BFN: bye for now BG: big grin BL: belly laughing BMTIPG: brilliant minds think in parallel gutters BRB: be right back BTA: but then again BTW: by the way BWL: bursting with laughter BWTHDIK: but what the heck do I know C&G: chuckle & grin CID: crying in disgrace CNP: continued (in my) next post CP: chat post CRBT: crying real big tears CSG: chuckle, snicker, grin CU: see you CUL: see you later CYO: see you online DBAU: doing business as usual DIKU: do I know you? DL: dead link DLTBBB: don’t let the bed bugs bite DQMOT: don’t quote me on this EG: evil grin EMFBI: excuse me for butting in EMSG: E-mail message EOT: end of thread F2F: face to face FC: finger crossed FISH: first in, still here FMTYEWTK: far more than you ever wanted to know FOMCL: falling off my chair laughing FTBOMH: from the bottom of my heart FUD: fear, uncertainly, and doubt FWIW: for what it’s worth G2G: got to go G: grin GA: go ahead GAL: get a life GD&R: grinning, ducking, and running GF: girlfriend GFN: gone for now GIWIST: gee, I wish I’d said that GMBO: giggling my butt off GMTA: great minds think alike GOL: giggling out loud GTRM: going to read mail GTSY: glad to see you H&K: hug and kiss HAGN: have a good night HHIS: hanging head in shame HTH: hope this helps HUB: head up butt IAC: in any case IANAL: I am not a lawyer (but) IC: I see IDK: I don’t know IHA: I hate acronyms IIRC: if I remember correctly ILU: I love you IM: instant message IMHO: in my humble opinion IMNSHO: in my not so humble opinion IMO: in my opinion IOW: in other words IPN: I’m posting naked IRL: in real life IWALU: I will always love you IYSWIM: if you see what I mean JIC: just in case JK: just kidding JMO: just my opinion JTLYK: just to let you know K: okay KIT: keep in touch KOC: kiss on cheek KOL: kiss on lips KOTC: kiss on the cheek KWIM: know what I mean? L8R: later LD: later, dude LDR: long distance relationship LLTA: lots and lots of thunderous applause LMIRL: let’s meet in real life LMSO: laughing my socks off LOL: laughing out loud LSHMBB: laughing so hard my belly is bouncing LTM: laugh to myself LTNS: long time no see LTR: long-term relationship LULAB: love you like a brother LULAS: love you like a sister LUWAMH: love you with all my heart LY: love you M/F: male or female? MOSS: member of same sex MOTOS: member of the opposite sex MSG: message MTF: more to follow MUSM: miss you so much NADT: not a darn thing NIFOC: naked in front of computer NP: no problem NRN: no reply necessary OIC: oh I see OLL: online love OM: old man OTF: off the floor OTOH: on the other hand OTTOMH: off the top of my head P2P: peer to peer P911: my parents are coming! PAW: parents are watching PDA: public display of affection PEBCAK: problem exists between chair and keyboard PLZ: please PM: private message PMFJIB: pardon me for jumping in but POAHF: put on a happy face POS: parent over shoulder QT: cute RL: real life ROTFL: rolling on the floor laughing RPG: role playing games RSN: real soon now S4L: spam for life SAW: sibling are watching SETE: smiling ear to ear SHCOON: shoot hot coffer out of nose SHID: slaps head in disgust SF: suffer friendly SNERT: snot nosed egotistical rude teenager SO: significant other SOMY: sick of me yet? SOT: short of time STW: search the web SWAK: sealed with a kiss SWL: screaming with laughter SYS: see you soon TA: Thank again TAW: teacher are watching TCOB: taking care of business TCOY: take care of yourself TIA: thanks in advance TILII: tell it like it is TMI: too much information TOS: teacher over shoulder TOY: thinking of you TTYL: talk to you later UW: you’re welcome WB: way back WFM: works for me WIBNI: wouldn’t it be nice if WTG: way to go WTGP: want to go private? WU: what’s up WUF: where are you from? YBS: you’ll be sorry YL: young lady YM: young man |