菩提本無樹,明鏡亦非台，本來無一物，何處惹塵埃?

--The world is so, we cannot change it. we cannot change anybody.
i know i am still young, that i still cannot see through human beings and i still always want to change things, and prove i am different.
But, i also know for sure that i am no different from anybody else, i am just another woman on the earth.
we always get ourselves into these situations, that we "think" the situation is so, but it actually is not. it is just our imagination.
and i feel stupid now.